Apologize for all the hell you've put him through!
I apologized about 2 weeks ago in an email. And again last night in our IM. Maybe I forgot to mention it but I did do it. He says he has forgiven me. The important thing is for me to not repeat the same behavior.
Me: 44 H: 48 M: 4 yrs My EA: 2010 & 2012 Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11 H left 1st time: 10/28/11 Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11 H left 2nd time: 12/23/12 Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8