Originally Posted By: jzoom
I guess the fact in starting to question whether I want her back or not is a step in the right direction. Detaching. Trying to keep my mindset now that it's her loss and if she wants to work on an R with me it's up to her to prove it to me. Let her chase me instead of me chasing her.



There is a little hint as to why you don't understand detachment. What you think is actually "detachment" is actually enmeshment and co-dependency.


Starsky

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