Save your money. Focus on yourself. Go treat yourself. Get an extreme makeover. If your hair is curly, straighten it. Goto the gym. Get highlights. Get a pedicure and manicure. Buy new perfume. If you don't wear jeans, wear jeans. Do not give him a thing. Do not be available on Vday. Go out to eat with friends on that day. Shut your phone off and don't be available. Take care of yourself. Focus on what you can control that is you.