Thank you for all the replies. I am just really on the fence with all this. At this point I am doing nothing i have not text W for a few days now. I just dont know what to do , so i guess at this point I do nothing until I know what to do.

BTW My friend was W's good friend first.. so she knows her and how she is. well i guess how she was.

Maybe the best thing is to just have NC with her until she contacts me. IF that happens I will see if i will reply. But I do need to say I have been GAL and feel good about things. It is just the past few weeks being sick with this flue that I have been stuck in house and it is getting to me in a big way.