Lonely, Sad and No Communication

[Wendylon]

I think labug is spot on in everything she says in her post to you.

It would make perfect sense for your W not to care what you do now you're S but for her to have resented it before. She would probably see you quitting the fire service now as too little too late given her current frame of mind. She might even not care anymore. I'm not saying that she can't change but the journey is likely going to be slow, hard and long.

Good job keeping things strictly business for now.

When you think of your W's 'moans' from the past, what were they about?