I re-read the Livestrong article on detachment and realised how far off the mark I'd gone. I'm not sure how I got so enmeshed so quickly. H manages his affairs completely differently from the way I do. I'm not being productive when I try to change that. It alienates him and it fuels resentment and dissatisfaction in me.
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
