Wife privileges reinstated, back in my own bed!

[FloydMan]

Yes, the Leadership point does make sense. Now, that was suggested to me and then i was considered controlling. Maybe I could not get the right balance but felt I could not win for trying. I remember you saying your H is controlling. Perhaps helping him understand the balance you need of what is perceived as leadership and what is perceived as controlling. His confidence was rocked so he is unsteady on his feet in that area right now. It will come.