I guess the fact in starting to question whether I want her back or not is a step in the right direction. Detaching. Trying to keep my mindset now that it's her loss and if she wants to work on an R with me it's up to her to prove it to me. Let her chase me instead of me chasing her.
I've been following your sitch and if you think questioning whether you want her back or not is not a step in the right direction I say you're wrong. You really are codependent with her and that isn't healthy. You are so focused on getting her back at all costs that you really parent following DBing at all. Remember she has to want to come back to you and you have to ask yourself if you've become someone she would come back to.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out
