not sure where to go from here

[albamarie]

my biggest regret is saying anything to anyone. I wish I could go back on that. Does anyone else have the same regrets?

Yes, my biggest regret is telling my mom who insisted I leave him or throw him out to the point where now she's the one I don't talk to.

I believe we M in sickness and in health and I needed to see this sickness through (until I was done) for the sack of the man I M, and our kids. My mom D my dad the next day, and now there back 3yr later. D is not something any of us LBS take lightly or we wouldn't be here!

I too am at the end though and very ok if he were to leave. I won't have any regrets about the time and effort I put into this M, because I know I was there always.

I knew the day I replied calmly to my h's yelling, I was done! When he threatened to leave once again I calmly said, go, and looked him straight in his eyes. He has yet to leave.

Stick to your boundaries, Tired and stay on your detaching it feels so much better when you do!