That doesn't surprise me. We went to Married Encounter and my H didn't really like it that much. It seemed to me he used it more as an opportunity to draw attention to himself rather than connect with me. It was almost like he didn't understand the point of why we were there and rather saw it as an opportunity to meet new people. He actually counted it as a "date" for us. No way, not in my mind.

If there's no sex at the end of the evening it ain't a date!!! LOL!!!!


Me: 44
H: 48
M: 4 yrs
My EA: 2010 & 2012
Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11
H left 1st time: 10/28/11
Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11
H left 2nd time: 12/23/12
Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8