Just a thought about those in separate bedrooms....I did this to my H for a long time. I thought if I forced him to sleep elsewhere it would increase his passion for me and he would become more romantic. Decreased supply = increased demand.....right? Didn't work because he thought I was just being mean and cold.

I also pushed him away outside the bedroom of course thinking that it would make him chase me. It didn't because he was oblivious. And now he's a LBH.


Me: 44
H: 48
M: 4 yrs
My EA: 2010 & 2012
Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11
H left 1st time: 10/28/11
Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11
H left 2nd time: 12/23/12
Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8