Just a thought about those in separate bedrooms....I did this to my H for a long time. I thought if I forced him to sleep elsewhere it would increase his passion for me and he would become more romantic. Decreased supply = increased demand.....right? Didn't work because he thought I was just being mean and cold.
I also pushed him away outside the bedroom of course thinking that it would make him chase me. It didn't because he was oblivious. And now he's a LBH.
Me: 44 H: 48 M: 4 yrs My EA: 2010 & 2012 Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11 H left 1st time: 10/28/11 Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11 H left 2nd time: 12/23/12 Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8