Trying to Comprehend Non-Complience Post-D

[Yasu]

Thank goodness your reply came when it did. I was weakening. But do have the Trivia date with Marissa and a whole NEW GROUP OF FRIENDS to meet at the Trivia game tomorrow. U know this may beweird, but I do have this psychic talent, and have been helping Marissa's daughter. God has been speaking thru me. I hate this talent. I am beyond this kind of thing, as I am a scientist, and trained reseacher, with a Ph.D. But if this peculiar gift helps someone -well, let them have it! We have been texting about it all evening, and it has kept my mind off of obsession - and they feel positive guidence, and are loving me, why should I stay isolated? And all her friends are so anxious to meet me for a reading! Oh dear!

But, to our matter at hand. You have given me the best advice, just in time. I tell you, I was getting weak. I do avoid conflict. I do not want to angler him, all of this is true. But it is also true is is swimming is cash, at least 200,000 a year due to a lifetime of my work, and my brains to set him up in a franchise, and he did not even graduate the 5th grade in his country.

You r right, so right in your post. He is just trying the system, and assumes I will do nothing.

I'm already in trouble with the original divorce attorney as I owe her $120,000. So - ya know, I sort of need those payments, as x-attorney is in process of screwing me out of up front awards I was granded (thru deception, of course).

I have saved and retained a new attorney, that appears trustworthy. I see him this upcoming Tuesday, and will file Contempt at that time. No more text, no more request, no more nothing. Like you said, he does not think the law applies to him. Also, this opens up the case again - and the Judge will learn that he HAS AN EXTENSION OF 5 YEARS TO RE-MODEL THE RESTAURANT. Yes, Judge didn't know that during divorce this summer. It was a big boo-hoo about the REQUIRED REMODEL.

It is really helpful, though, that I remain in control of the emails from the franchise. And I see the offer for a 5 year extension on this "required re-model" that seemed to be such a monkey on his back during the trial. And the judge feel for it, and factored the cost of re-model into settlement. He is such a damn liar. IHOP always gives extensions! Big extensions! They need you to keep running the place! I suppose a hearing is an opportunity to discuss that fact, isn't it? Well, he opened the door.

THANK YOU 25 for responding to me - before I made some stupid mistake. I really perceived texts for my money as "pursue" behavior. But there were some nasties at least = such as "PONY UP THE DOUGH!" I wasn't a total wimp!

I'll keep ya posted on my GAL - cause that's just as important! Thank you again for responding to me! Y