Well I've been unhappy for about 3 out of 4 years. We've split 2 other times (once was the suggestion of our MC who thought my H was too dependent on me). Right before this last split I had bad feelings for about 2 months but it intensified the 2 weeks leading up to Christmas because of stress I was under. Also, my sister is a really severe biased shoulder who had been pressuring me to get rid of him. Ultimately I think I pushed him to leave to win her approval. And then a week ago she decided she doesn't want to speak to me anymore because I won't let her have my house and control over my life. So it's really messed up and all my fault.
Me: 44 H: 48 M: 4 yrs My EA: 2010 & 2012 Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11 H left 1st time: 10/28/11 Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11 H left 2nd time: 12/23/12 Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8
