Tori, you might be going through another phase of grief now, since it looks like you D is imminent.

Your H avoiding contact with you is a little suspicious. It might be that he is having hard time to make the last step.

I have a feeling that after what you’ve been through you will know when you meet a good man. And you are more than capable of having a great relationship. I’m sure you will not be alone. I think it will take some time for you to open your heart to somebody else, but it will happen. I didn’t want to get married after my first divorce, I was afraid to get hurt again. But I met my second husband and fell in love…

[quote= Oh, and I have lots of regrets, including getting married in the first place.[/quote]
I had the same feelings just recently. But then I thought that it was my choice to get married and I made my decision thinking that this marriage would be for rest of my life.

I’m in CA and would love to meet you one day. Maybe we should exchange info.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state