Originally Posted By: AnotherStander


Good! Keep it that way for now. If he ever expresses interest in returning then the more serious convos can take place.



He still lives with us. Has not left....still deciding whether he will or not. but I will take "returning" to mean return to our marriage...or committing to our marriage, so I get it.

You must live close to your W. to be able to do 50/50 custody. I work from home and H works full time, so I am the SAHM..I would want this to continue...kids with me, he visits. ugh hate the thought of it.