You sound really confused about what "light touching" means. That is an issue for you to address SM b/c it's significant in how YOU interacted with your wife. Dig deep there.
Anyhow, to ME, light touching = playful touching.
Did you ever flirt with her? Maybe tap her behind and lovingly tell her she looks "SO FINE" or "hot" or whatever terms are authentic for YOU.
Only do this when it's clear you are not pursuing her in a pressuring way. (NOT that you would not like to be intimate, but that you are on your way out the door, or busy GAL somewhere, etc.) So flirt and GAL. Be detached from the results.
Again, to remind you of what that means, I'll post a short piece on detachment.But I think you've had it before.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
