Gotcha. Though honour hasn't don't much on the R front, I gotta be me and hold my head high. Like you DB friends, my friends and family say I have to protect me and my kids as she may exploit that. What can I do to sway things....and I mean quickly? I do find it so odd that this ugly, long tough route that will last a lifetime is still feeling like her best option. I cannot be too critical as I did check out after the A and pushed for D right away. Then I bought into what sometimes feels like a scam, sometimes confusion/MLC, sometimes a bit of both and sometimes, sometimes like she just can't handle things emotionally to fix it and sometimes like I friggin blew it. A mutual friend told me she just wants to shake her and wake her up to real life, but knows she will just make her angry and risk friendship by seemingly taking sides.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
