Forgot to add.

Out of those issues. Your wife owns the drugs. You do not. You own yourself an boundary on this issue.

Your wife owns the cheating. You do not. You own yourself an boundary on this issue.

The Divorce. Well your slowly correcting your problems. Those two issues need to be addressed by your wife if there is any chance in an opportunity to work on and restore the marriage. I am sure there are a few more issues to fix as well. Since you one day hope to restore the marriage you should figure out what you like and do not like in the marriage so if the opportunity arises you are prepared.


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