A word of advice. Never excuse on bad behavior on something else.

It is always better to separate them into 2 issues. 2 problems. 2 things that need to be dealt with.

You will find life much better when you do not play into the victim mentality.

The drugs are an issue. Then this is one issue to overcome.

The cheating is an issue. This is one issue to overcome.

The marriage is heading for divorce. This is one issue to overcome.


3 issues to be dealt with.


Not 1.

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