My friend told me today her and ex were texting for the next few days after that and nothing came up. My friend then tells me that on Sun or Mon ex texts her out of the blue saying how I'm begging her & kids to come back and be a family but things are going well between her and OM. My friend just said "alright" and didn't hear anything else from ex.
Thing is, after the backslide on Tue I haven't said anything else along that line. My friend and I think she's probing for info and my friend said that her talking about OM never has seemed authentic.
This is just my opinion, but why is your friend telling you this stuff? I think it will just destroy your POM and your are just guessing at what she is doing/thinking. Trust me, I get it. My best friend is married to my H's best friend. A few weeks ago I had to set a boundry that she couldn't talk to her H about it, because she would then tell me stuff like "Your H isn't telling everyone everything?!" blah, blah. It was killing my POM, then the 2 of us would speculate as to what my H is thinking and you can't rationalize crazy! Again, it's just my opinion, but it's helped alot!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
