Haven't apologized and the more I think about backing down on the sitch I was posting about it doesn't seem like a good idea.

1/22 is when I had the backslide in texting her that she could come back and be a family and she took it as "or move your stuff out" and I backpeddled as best I could with help from you guys.

My friend told me today her and ex were texting for the next few days after that and nothing came up. My friend then tells me that on Sun or Mon ex texts her out of the blue saying how I'm begging her & kids to come back and be a family but things are going well between her and OM. My friend just said "alright" and didn't hear anything else from ex.

Thing is, after the backslide on Tue I haven't said anything else along that line. My friend and I think she's probing for info and my friend said that her talking about OM never has seemed authentic.

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln