Not fun doing this stuff one minute while trying to keep hope alive.
Boy, that's an understatement!
Thanks Bug, BD and Spartan. I love you all.
I really really do not want to go through with this. I really want my W and family back and this to stop. But as you all say, CYA mode must be on. She cried and begged so much to keep our family after her A and I was out. Why is it too that when last year I wanted to S after I found out that family and friends freaked on me that it was wrong and to fix our M no matter what (None knew of the A) but those same people do not call her to task?
We are teaching our kids all the wrong things. I wish there were something I could do or say. But if there was, we would not all be on this board, right?
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
