So I'm racking my brain tryin to figure out how can I 180 some of the things my wife said were my faults.
1) Be more involved with the kids. The only possible thing I can think of is to just go out and get my own place and move out of my parents even though I would hate to have to break a lease if she decided to let me back home.
2) Show more "love" to her 2 daughters. She felt as though I never really loved her 2 daughters like she loved my 3. And that I was stricter to the oldest (16) the. I was to the others.
3) put her first before anyone else.
I ask these questions because I know I need to detatch and GAL for Me, but if I am also suppose to 180 those bad things as well how can I do that and show her than my small changes are consistent if we don't live in the same household and if we're not really on speaking terms other than when she wants/needs something or for our D(5)?
