not sure where to go from here

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Very possible but even if he was he would never admit there was something wrong or get help. His mom refuses to get help and I am not certain she is bipolar other than my own diagnosis of her but I'm pretty certain she is. She definitely has some personality disorder. She left him and his older brother when he was 15 and moved out of state and stuck them with the house and bills. If anything, there is a family pattern of abandonment. His father was also a cheater.

I'm not sure about the bipolar because he seems to be able to control it everywhere else but with me. I've been really thinkin about it and he gets very angry when he is embarrassed. He refuses to see my family and is angry because he thinks I told them stuff. I wonder if the same goes true for me. His anger might be because he is embarrassed about what he did to me. He can avoid my family and it seems like he tries to avoid me too. But he still lives here so not as often. Just a thought. He is being nice again. I've gone back to stop asking and it seems to keep things calm for now. It usually only lasts so long. Once I try and set boundaries or question him it goes right back to the way it was.