I am also impressed with your ability to express what you need in your marriage. This is one of the things that I am looking at as well.

Communication is obviously a problem in my M as well. I have to say, that should my H and I decide to start moving forward, I am pretty sold on seeing if he would be willing to do RetroV.

This is so amazing!

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D