AS, I like how you were able to calmly and directly tell your W what you need from M to make it work.
I'm also impressed w your level of detachment. I guess that's when you know you'll be okay w or w/o your S.
I do think communication is key to a successful M. If we all were much better at communicating our needs in a way our S's could hear us and then followed through w great listening, many of us might not be in this place.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.