AS,
I like how you were able to calmly and directly tell your W what you need from M to make it work.

I'm also impressed w your level of detachment. I guess that's when you know you'll be okay w or w/o your S.

I do think communication is key to a successful M. If we all were much better at communicating our needs in a way our S's could hear us and then followed through w great listening, many of us might not be in this place.


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.