Sunny, while I was typing my response you posted...so I have a few more questions.
1) What state are you in?
2) When you say everything is mandated...what does that mean?
3) No fault state or fault state
Oh...one more comment....do NOT allow HER to RUSH YOU. YOu take your time and think thing through. She wants out to be with OM, well she can pack up and leave today. Her needs are NOT your problem or issue anymore.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans