I am guessing you mean outside input from friends and family? If so, that is probably very good advice, Labug.
Yeah, I have really learned through this that I limit my discussions with certain family and friends. Michelle says not to share anything with outside people that your spouse would be upset about. Also, no one knows what it is like going through this. I know everyone thinks I should have kicked him out the day I found out. So I limited much of the info I give them. "I'm doing ok, I'm having a bad day...so lets laugh" I dicuss the gritty details with my IC, sponcer and here.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
