House for sale. So Sad. Family Breaking Up (pt 3)

[FloydMan]

I just don't know what to do. My kids don't want to stay in the house if we are all not together. She is bent on buying me out now and I am in process of securing approved mortgage to do the same. I really want to stop this split and time has run out. What can I do? ? ?
I came across some old cards, and notes ... Well some weren't that old, within the 9 months to last two and 3 years. How proud she is of me, how proud she is of how wonderful of a husband and father I am, how much she loves our family. That was very recent April. She notes how life is easy with me and that was even after 10 years of marriage. How appreciative she was of how much I put into our family and that she loved me because I was thoughtful and caring. I know she felt this way because she did express it too. Even though the money was good and i worked so hard I know I had some stressful times at work 2008-2010 and i am sure that showed. That is when we disconnected And she had A at beginningof 2011 for 3 months. She won't even talk to me except through L. I detached months ago full on 180/lLRT and it is still full steam ahead and pace picked up and litigation more nasty. I am trying to slow litigation down as much as I can and my L is helping me with that as best he can.
It would be easy if I did not love her still even through all this and knowing how much she did love me and counted on me. She is so angry.
What can I do? ? ?