Crimson,, Veroprada, thank you so much for your encouragement/tips.

Crimson you are absolutely right. It has been two solid months now and I have learned not to keep my finger on the pulse as they say. I do notice my W warming up as time goes by, but I do not know her motives or what she is thinking so I don't get too excited about it. I am focused on me, and trying to fix my financial issues which are the main reason of the breakdown in our marriage.

(Bad finances caused me to be depressed, lower my sev drive, wife pulled back on her words of affirmation, I withdrew, sex broke down).

Anyway, please read my next post. I need help from EVERYONE now, more than ever. The phone coaching went great and Laurie was awesome in encouraging me and making me realize that the way my W is acting towards me is most likely quite positive. Read my next post.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017