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the best way to save the marriage would have been to ignore it.


Just thinking on this...here are my reasons to ignore (as much as possible) W's affair behavior:
-For my own mental health
-To keep to the high road
-To not push them to the OP
-To allow time for the OP to show their true colors
-Take some of the "forbidden excitement" out
-To confuse them <evil grin> lol
-Then maybe, maybe, it just might help save the marriage

I am sure there are other reasons...

Just philosophizing here...


In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm