. I would never date a man who told me or did the things my H has told me or done, but I would choose to save my M if I could because he is my H. It's a huge difference in my mind. Once I'm married to somebody, it's just different bc of what marriage means to me. In my eyes, I need to do whatever I can do to save my M

I get you completely on this. I feel the same way.

How are you today?

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home