All that while "I don't consider myself married to u anymore"...oh, so she wants new furniture, and yet still wants to kick you out of the house with that new furniture for her enjoyment? This kind of stuff would be more problematic for me than the affairs at this point, no one wants to be used so blatantly, know what I mean?
She told me this morning you made me screw you because you didn't move out in March when I asked you too. -
Like you said what is done is done !! -- But T2 - the best way to save the marriage would have been to ignore it.
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!