Any opinions on the above would be greatly appreciated.

Also, how would dragging out the divorce work with the LRT? Would refusing to divorce be a form of pursuing? I have been playing it cool and GALing. It would seem that if I stated I did not want to divorce right away that it would make it evident I'm not ready to move on with my own life.

I think I may set up a session with a DB coach to discuss, but any thoughts would be appreciated.