I didn't bring up the affair because her OTHER actions (or desired actions) you reported really put the affair as a secondary concern in my mind.
-The check order, and "might as well have fun" statement -The new furniture thing -This whole wedding, in-laws thing -etc, etc
All that while "I don't consider myself married to u anymore"...oh, so she wants new furniture, and yet still wants to kick you out of the house with that new furniture for her enjoyment? This kind of stuff would be more problematic for me than the affairs at this point, no one wants to be used so blatantly, know what I mean?
There is a pattern there, imo. I can't blame you at all for reaching your limit, and maybe your sitch is one that the mlc'er needs reality to bite them hard. Idk.
In answer to your post on Hopper's thread, you aren't a meddling fool, you are doing the best you can, and add in the above stuff, well...
We are here to support you, I can't judge another for their "enough" decision, and now that you are there, I want you to be the best you can be and get what is right and fair for you and your son.
Hang in there, remember, with D, anything you say or do can/will be used against you...calm, cool, collected business man from here on out...don't play into her games and manipulations...you are better than that, and she WILL try everything in her arsenal most likely....I hope I am wrong though.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
