H and I used to make each other laugh, but H would try to embarrass me more. I used to complain about it and it stopped and now I regret it. Did you ever make comments to him about his behavior? It is possible that all the stresses the two of you have been through have dampened his ability to be the clown.
Have you heard from him since he's been in Europe?
Just remind yourself you are starting over, new R/M, don't take anything for granted. He is still trying to get over his hurt and insecurities.
Hey RLA,
This is so true what Hopeful is saying here. Stay the course up upbeat and cheery as tough as that can be. You are in the driver's seat here though it may not seem like it. There clearly is a common theme among hurt spouses.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
