I try and talk about this with him and he says hes ready which I guess he is waiting for me, which is hard after being rejected Im not 100% sure if hes even attracted to me that way ??????
when you say this, what do you mean? do you suggest having sex and he rejects it? does he suggest and you reject it?
or by "talking about it" do you mean saying "why don't we have sex anymore?" (i.e. complaining rather than suggesting it). believe me, that would be a real turnoff for anyone.
there are a lot of things you can try, such as a romantic evening (candlelight dinner, romantic movie, etc) or physical touch (a kiss plus a pat on the behind for example). these are just examples, you need to think what works for the two of you as a couple. what things did you used to do together before (i.e. leading up to) sex, when your relationship was better?
