Separated, in different states....

[mamabird]

Here's another one:

Regretful,

I like your post. I am nowhere near dropping the rope. My H left a month ago and is living with his folks in another state. He hasn't even called me like he said he would. In my head I know I need to GAL and move on but my heart is torn up. It's made worse by the fact that the past 3 years we were together I basically ignored him and all his attempts to love me. He wasn't perfect but he tried and I couldn't reciprocate.

Am I missing him or am I wracked with guilt?

I'd say you probably are both missing him and wracked with guilt.

Let's start by figuring out why you pushed him away... and why you want him back now. Are you really ready to be a decent W to him? Seems like you know you treated him pretty badly.