I do not know her complaints she will not communicate with me. It as now been four months without a real adult conversation. Her initial complaints were she was not happy, I am not the man she thought I would become, she did not want to have children ( which I accepted and she told me that need to go find someone who wanted to have children and liked to go to the beach. My response to that was I loved her I did want someone else). She was naive when she married me. ( we got married at 30) whatelse she was unhappy living in our house ( I told I would move be she told me I did not want to move). Were went to another therapist and we really connected and she told me she had hope, then I went away to work, unwillingly. I didn't want to but she woild not have been able to fund everything on her salary. I came home and she dropped the bomb. Maybe I was just too boring, I lost myself in her needs and in her wants and gratifications. This I know. I had been doing a lot of work for himself I have me gaint leap from where I was even just two weeks ago. I am discovering I why I behaved the way with my w. And I am working through my feelings recognizing them, I am being tourght to allow those feelings or else you will never get over them. By working through them and digesting then you will grow from them. I do not have resentment for her, I love her. I am disappointing in her actions which could financially harm both of us. Some of the posts are venting.yes I would rather do that here then to her. I have been keeping things strictly business and i have people read through messages to take all the " feelings" out.We have a lot things to work but that is difficult if someone doesn't want to work. I have kept her well informed of everything.
