My ability to detach seems to be getting better, or at least when something about my sitch gets me down I am able to control my emotions and get back on track much quicker. That is a positive. Have I got there?.....not even close
Who needs full detachment? As long as I'm functioning properly in all area's of my life, I'm detached more than enough, I say.
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During a text conversation today when W was expressing the desire to join a gym. I backslid and mentioned that I would go with her if she wanted. I already joined the gym, but have yet to go for anything more than a tan. She didn't decline, but she didn't respond. I didn't pursue it AT ALL....baby backstep, Grrrr
Meh, asking her to join you is nothing to worry about. You asked, she didn't accept, you dropped it. No problem.
Now the not working out thing is a problem. Do you understand how much exercising helps to relieve your stress?
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That is me for the last couple days. If you stay tuned, you will probably watch me turn upside down again....
I flip flop every week it seems. We all do. Accept it as part of the deal right now.
Bust On, and continue to offer your words of wisdom to others. I think you're doing a great job.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
