Boy I need advice here. This evening h was looking at son 18 notebook from college. Notice some sexual doodling but no notes and son just started college.Immature stuff really. H questioned son who said his friend did it. And my h didn't believe him. Son proceeded to get more upset and yelling at hos dad that he didn't do it. Son then stomped outside and hit the brick wall with his fist. H called him back in and son was hyperventalating and lookin at his dad with terrible anger. We got him calmed down. and h told him he had to try harder in school and do the work. Son makes excuses and did not do well in high school. Son has ADD and was on meds but hated them. He wanted to join the army but wouldn't take him due to his grades. The plan was to go to college for a year with at least c's. any ways should all this drama affect my timing on this divorce? H still doing his crap. Son and dad have strife between them. But tonite was rough.