I need some advice...how do I compete w OW who is still on his golden pedestal?
How you compete is to be the best lil'GTO you can be, and build a happy and fulfilling life for yourself and your kids. You actually have the home court advantage here. You are the mother of his kids, and you live in the marriage house. OW doesn't have that.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl