FY & all,

I've not been contacting H at all via email or phone, unless specifically regarding the kids.

I give H space when he is here w boys w me (mostly).

Talk is almost exclusively about boys. No R talk.

I can't say I'm always bright & cheery, but I try to be as positive and nice as possible.

NO CHANGES FROM HIM AT ALL...so, any suggestions about what I could do differently???? Show up on his doorstep in a teddy w a bottle of wine? Send him a sexually explicit email? LOL!
Or, completely shut him down & try to go dimmer/dark?

I need some advice...how do I compete w OW who is still on his golden pedestal?

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.