I finally heard from H today and I feel really annoyed. I haven't spoken to him in 3 days. He has sent a few texts and I always reply nicely. He decided to go to NYC for 1 night on Sunday. While i took the kids on a 1 night ski trip. The kids had a 4 days weekend. You think he would at least check in by phone but all I got I was 1 text. I know...zero expectations. I am actually proud of myself for not initiating any texts or phone calls because I normally would.
He did send a couple of texts on Monday. He usually calls or texts when he is back from a trip, but I got nothing.
He finally called this evening (Tuesday), he was going to a softball meeting but said if the meeting gets out early he would swing by to see the kids. This was at the beginning of the conversation. I tried to be nice and ask about his trip. He seemed to get all testy that I was asking him questions. Finally, I said at the end of the 5 min conversation, what should I tell the kids, will they see you. He then said, well the meeting last 2 hours, I doubt it. I said ok fine, good night. Then I haven't even heard from him. Normally he would text and say that I am not coming or something like that.
Why am I so annoyed, I should just expect this at this point. Tomorrow, he will be home for dinner. So we will get a chance to speak in person. Its just so hard.
Is there a time when I can initiate friendly texts. He always responds when I do text, which isn't that often.
Me 38 H 39 M13 T18 S6 S9 Bomb Drop 11/11 Moved Out 7/12 Still have hope. No OW that I know of..
