LOL. I did the same thing. I refused to be kicked out of my bedroom. It was a line I wasn't willing to cross. And I was nice and pleasant the entire time. Still am. I find there is no room for the nastiness. They create that in their own mind enough for everyone around and I have no place adding to it.
I can't begin to tell you how glad I am that I've been pleasant with my ex. It has not sat well with her, but that's no excuse for me to act the angry fool. Not that I have not been, at times, but that's my deal. Being pleasant has helped me tremendously in dealing with the spew, lies, etc. I don't have anything to be sorry about in how I treated her. No regrets.
That's a priceless, if not narrow, road to walk Rachael. It really is.
But it's worth it. Try to keep that in mind as you interact with H.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
