So I've been away for a short while, partially b/c I needed a break so to speak. So where to start as far as an update. Friday - me cloud 9 b/c of the job interview. W stayed home b/c of snow. D12 had a sleepover at a friends, so the boys and I played pirates and made cushion / blanket forts. Saturday - W went to ER b/c of intense pain. She had my support of course. Turns out she had / has a UTI on top of her bladder scenario. W elected to go out that day / night. Sort of a test that I passed in terms of detachment. Focused on what I could control (me and the kiddos), so I dropped S7 off at one of W's friend's sons bday party (a little weird but I know them some), and then D12 and S2 went to the mall to return a few things; and then buy bday party invites for S2. One week away. . We rented some movies, baked a cake, and had more fort fun. Sunday - W calls and asks if she can come home early. Sure why not. I'm trying to fix an old laptop (reinstall everything so I can use it for what I want - update legal docs like wills, advanced directives, etc.). That is a painful process. W is nice throughout the day and males several comments about how SHE is sick of the w/e scenario, misses home, etc. She is physically getting closer to me. She had me touch a small bump / nodule on her pelvis. She asks if I am angry before bedtime, I'm not, just the computer frustration. She then asked me if I have filed. "Not yet". W then let's me know she hasn't. Monday - W is nice and flirty. Close physical proximity by her. We begin $ talks / organization. Today - W same as yesterday so far. Ive generally kept my PMA and my distance (friendly). The best news is that I received a followup call, and have arranged an interview for tomorrow am. If I "nail" this one, I'm pretty sure the job is mine. So lots of good news for ME on MY path! Not so sure or concerned with W's path.
. We rented some movies, baked a cake, and had more fort fun. 
