Ha, no, I mean she was kind of giving me an excuse about the financial stuff and I just ignored it and didn't respond. She knows my stance on it so I'm not going to engage her when she gives excuses.
I was misunderstanding the text about the as numbers. Thinking she wanted the cards so that's why I was asking. I grabbed the cards and ran them out to her since I had other things to do anyway.
Needless to say she was surprised to see me and commented how I could've just texted. I told her I had to go out anyway and she was fine. Then I asked about something else and she violated an agreement (sorry, not getting into specifics here) and I got a bit agitated. I have a good reason and it's another boundary (seemingly harsh from her perspective) that I have to establish to cover my butt.
I texted after I walked out the door and she claimed it was a one time thing. I've heard, though, it's happening on a regular basis. She said sorry but then told me I didn't have to jump on her especially while she's at work. It's a serious issue so I refused to apologize when I've done nothing wrong. I told her that if it happens again she faces the consequences. She responded, "Ok jzoom", I know she wasn't happy but right now I don't care.
I then texted and asked a general housekeeping kind of question. She said she hadn't been able to do it b/c she was at work all day and hadn't even eaten. I said ok and asked if she wanted anything to eat which she declined b/c she's leaving soon.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
