This is where I am. "My wife doesn't want me". She has made that very clear. The another day I was thinking, she has really messed me up, and do love her and i do miss her but what can i do.I have been reading what these people have been saying and I have been listening and trying to understand myself through the 3 therapist I have been seeing. I starting another read " disarming the narcissist, surviving and thriving with the self absorbed". It paints a good picture of my w and there is no way I can help her, she need to come terms with that herself and I think about what was said early on here, i love the person she used to be. i have asked if she would go to a mediator i hope to get maybe one more shot in talking things through, received no response. She is the one wanted this not me, have been leaving her alone. How can I not think about other woman if my w is running around saying she is single and has s@#t on everything we had together,
