I think it is s good sign that she talked about reconciliation. It looks like you have no choice about D anyway, so I would completely agree with her. More you disagree, more she is going to be determined to do it her way. You have nothing to lose at the moment, so just to be completely on her side and see what happens.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
