That's interesting. My H was always the class clown type too. Now he's so serious all the time. Very concerned with what everyone else thinks. Kind of depressing. Even when I've tried to lighten up the mood he doesn't go for it.
Yeah, I definitely relate. I was always the funny guy when I was younger....and over the years I turned into the angry guy. And unfortunately, that dude is an @sshole.
That's going to be your H's path though, so I don't think you can do more than ask him questions like "What makes you smile? What do you consider fun? What would be the perfect date?" You are essentially starting over here, so I would take the assumptions out of it and get to know H all over again...that in itself could be fun.
